Has ur husband ever forgotten stuff foru or just generally forgetful but you seem to remember him remembering stuff for others. Would not say daily forgetfulness but a few time’s
Making u feel like he doesn’t care then ?
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Yeah, this is called selective memory.
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Ab kya kiya becharay ne :(
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It happens to everyone.
He probably forgets about other people as well, you're just not noticing it because you're only focusing on yourself.
Everyone forgets every now and then. The older we get, the more we forget. :)
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Reminds me of a scene from Maya Memsaab… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgQDHSMboXs … starting at 25:30
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did he forget he married you?
the human brain is wunnnerfulll. it can sometimes suppress painful memories and bring peace and calm. :\
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Aww he probably just remembers random things, sometimes regarding you and sometimes others.
Dont read too much into it. Besides if there are certain things that you want him to remember, then simply remind him. Dont sit around testing him to see what he remembers and for whom.
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Nadz, did you forget to show his mom the tickets right away or did you deliberately choose to delay it? Did you simply forget your husband's warning to not use his brother's laptop, or did you purposely ignore it? Did you forget to make his mom some food when she was sick, or did you deliberately ignore that request of your husband's too? Think about the mistakes you have made in your marriage toward him and maybe you'll calm down. And if some of your mistakes toward him were deliberate, then try to forgive him for his unintentional ones.
Based on what you tell us about him, I doubt that he even vents about you to his mom or siblings or even his friends. At least you have GS to to rant and rail about him, he may not even have an online outlet to express his frustrations.
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Why is everyone so horrible to Nadz? It's tiring reading half the people slating her.
Arzi and RV gave the best advice - can't really add more to that.
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Why is everyone so horrible to Nadz? It's tiring reading half the people slating her.......
It's tiring reading half of the people actually trying to 'advise' her.
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He was asked 3 times to get paracetmol.and yes he has remembered things in past but I had a splitting headache and rather than understand that he was angry
I was angry so I said how many time have I told.u and u.only.forget my.tablets no one else's.( he a while back has bought whatever tablets his mum.asks for)
Yeah OK
Now everyone will say that was wrong of me and so what if u have a headache ?
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Rv- I'm not saying he deliberately did not buy it in fact I know its not
But it makes it worse that.he unintentionally forgot
Does he not care
Why else would someone ask for panadol unless some sort f pain
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He was asked 3 times to get paracetmol.and yes he has remembered things in past but I had a splitting headache and rather than understand that he was angry I was angry so I said how many time have I told.u and u.only.forget my.tablets no one else's.( he a while back has bought whatever tablets his mum.asks for)
Yeah OK
Now everyone will say that was wrong of me and so what if u have a headache ?
Your problem is not that he forgot to bring tablets (or whatever) for you. Your problem is the bolded part: the fact that he didn't forget his mothers tablets a while ago and now forgot yours.
Again making it a nadz vs mil thing.
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You could have also asked his mom for Panadol or asked husband to ask his mom. Unless you actually mentioned his mom to him and how he cares more for her, he shouldn't have gotten angry at you for a mere headache. Sometimes I seriously wonder if there's some jadoo on you and your husband that makes you both make the same mistakes; it's almost like a web cast on your minds that is preventing you both from thinking and seeing straight.
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How can you even think that you can compare yourself to his mom.
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I'm sure he's consuming all the panadol himself.
^washes it down with the bitter taste of regret.