Re: …Forcing yourself to change…
Sara Way to go :k:
PCG ofcourse you are not a doggie (or a female dog for that matter). You are a pigni 
Skhan I am not sure if you lose self respect, but after being so nice to them, when you decide to turn into a mean thing, it’s really hard and you feel bad, but you have to do it or else it eats you inside.
Nilu Way to go :k:
BKB I tried my best to be fair and I think I accomplished it too to some extent, but then the expectations kept growing, and growing, and growing. Instead of bending myself backward more, I decided to stand up straight for what I think is right and for what I feel like doing.