forced mariages:grumpy: internationl marriages jus for a passport 
breaking hearts 
snatching our faith from us
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i'm being forced to mari m cuzn from pakistan and i don't want to because i love someone else and he even knows of this but wont stop the wedding
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Losingfaith isnt there a way u cud speak 2 ur family and explain 2 them ur situation. Are they forcing u bcoz of the reason that u love someone else?
I hope that everything works out well 4 u inshallah.
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Hunny, if he's not stopping the wedding, then he's not worth ure love :( If he did genuinely care, he'd try to step in and do something but he's not. Trust me.. but whatever u do do NOT marry ure cuzn frm Pak because ure being pushed into it by ur parents and jnust for a passport. It's not right at all. Forced marriages are haram, whether by physical force, or as more often with us desis, emotional blackmail..
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if they r forcing u in the marriage then obviously they don't care about your feeling.
i say if you inform the human right or Police that you are being forced into something whhich you don't want to do.
Please Do Not sacrifice yourself, any relationship is not worth it.
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Hey-- get out of this situation like NOW. There must be someone-- a relative, a friend who could help you out by way of talking on your behalf? And I don't understand what you mean when you say "Im being forced." Who's forcing you? You know very well that no one can actually force you, don't you? And if it really gets bad, u know that u can always call the police. Infact let slip around ur family that u might do somethin like that, if they're pushing you inspite of knowing you don't wish to get married. This way, they might rethink and you won't actually have to make a call. Where's the guy ur in love with? Isn't he doin something?
And dun worry, things will be fine : hug:
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Better suited here.
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losing faith which country are you in currently?
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call up your most gossipy cousin and tell her you are being forced into a marriage (or atleast threaten your parents/cousin you will do so)
dont go to pakistan
stand up for what u believe in. have an open discussion with your parents about this. they'll eventually understand.
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If you are in the UK there are plenty of people who can help you
profesionals who are trained in this sort of dilemma and can help discuss all options with you and can even talk to your family
heres a telephone no for the forsed marriage unit in the uk
020 7008 0135/0230/8706
here’s a link to info given to teachers…its gots of info that may be helpful
http://publications.teachernet.gov.uk/eOrderingDownload/FCO%2075263.pdf
its open mon to fri 9-5
you can also get advise from your teachers(if you school /college/uni)
and your doctor shuld be able to get you help in your local area
if you need more help and youre in the uk
pm me
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if youre not in the uk... most of the above will still apply
if there is any chance that they will force into something you dont want to do
REFUSE TO GO ABROAD (im assuming you will have to travel abroad..)
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run away 
ok sorry jokes aside since ur wedding’s in 2 days, and you don’t wanna go through it shouldn’t you be talking to family members and stuff to stop the wedding.. what r u doing posting on GS?
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^thats inside news,hehe.. wait am i mixing her up with the other girl, let me double check..
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why wait for him to do it? why not do it yourself?
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Could you please explain how it's 'snatching your faith' away from you?
Faith in marriage? Faith in men? Faith in Pakistan? Faith in parents?
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Im guessing faith in men and parents, since hthe one she loves wont’ stand up for her, and her parents are forcing her into it..
Seriously, if u dont stop it right now and u do get married, then dont’ come crying here.. noones gnna feel sorry for you 
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I know how u feel. I have been through the same stuff with my parents 5 yrs ago.
It took me 4 yrs and ALOT of headaches, fights and tears to get out of the nikkah with my cousin in pk. it was also a go abroad visa chakkar!!!!
DONT GO TO PAKISTAN!!thats my advice to you. just dont go. u will alone with tons of weird relatives. stay where u r and dump ur bf if he is not strong enough to stand by ur side now!!!
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you're in the west and you're being 'forced' ? gimme a break! no one can do that to you but ONLY you! call up the police if your parents don't want to listen to you. khatam baat!