i m goin in2 a marriage wi a boy i dont trus and hav no faith in, i m in luv wi som1 else n he luvs m 2, m fiance no’s of this. who is in th wrong cuz wi out m boyfriend i wudn’t even b ere 2day:teary1:
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I think the thread's better suited here.
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first I dont get the whole story because of the slang being used....that aside though...
You have the right to refuse any "arranged" marriage dont you? Have you tried speaking with your parents about this? Are they approachable? If they truly care about you they will listen, at least to a certain degree. More details needed here....in more understandable language pleez.
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lol @ ‘don’t get the whole story because of the slang being used’. ![]()
All she’s trying to say is that she’s been engaged to a guy she does not like and has no faith in. She already has a boy friend and her fiance is aware of the fact that she has a boy friend. If it hadn’t been for her boy friend, she wouldn’t even have been here.
As for the advice/help bit, don’t get into a forced marriage. Also, you must weigh pros and cons for both guys to see which one would be better and more compatible in the long run.
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losingfaith,
you seriously need to learn how to spell (including ur nick/ID).
Forced marriage
there was a girl here the other day.. (cant find the thread)
who said she was being forced to marry someone
What happened?
is she ok?
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I hope she's alright...she never posted anymore than just the situation she was in.
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Bah the ills of our society really wish that people could be killed for such stupidity. To be frank, I doubt she got any help.
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Can Gupshup admin help locating her? Admin can access her email id and ip address.
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^ lol all you want is her wedding food.
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^ very sarcastic.......
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multi nicks ![]()
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i love parents but sometimes they could be so ---------------------------------------
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Get a job, move out, make your own decisions, marry who you want, live your own life. If you have problems with your parents and cannot resolve them, why live with them?
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loosing faith .. don't marry when u don't feel like it. :)
refuse even if u have to go to the last limit .
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o woww, um did u talk to ur parents losinfaith? Anyway if they still dont want u gettin married to ur bf then forget him or atleast try and get to know ur hubby. wht does ur fiance think of u havin a bf? talk to him maybe he can help u out with it or sumthin and if none of it works then get to know ur fiance and get married to him.
Inshallah everythin will work out, stick in, good luck