There is a girl whom I’ve fallen for, she states that she loves me but I just don’t feel it. I’ve fallen madly for this girl… but I think there is no proper reciprocation on her part. She says she loves me back. I think she might leave not sure. I can never get a proper signal on her. Should I just tell her to be blunt with me and tell me the truth. I feel as if she’s leading me on. Should I not get my hopes up. From her perspective, if she’s not interested in me then why is she going along?
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Run!!!! She is out to get you!! Like Nirvana said in Territorial Pissings: Just because you're paranoid. Don't mean they're not after you.
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you should be blunt and straight forward. tell her how you feel, how much you care for her and ask if she does in fact feel the same way. if she does, then that's great, you can move forward with the relationship. if not, then at least you know and move along on your separate paths
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you should be blunt and straight forward. tell her how you feel, how much you care for her and ask if she does in fact feel the same way. if she does, then that's great, you can move forward with the relationship. if not, then at least you know and move along on your separate paths
She says that she loves me too. But I just can't feel it...
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do you have trusting issues maybe? maybe she really does love you but you find it hard to feel or believe cuz you have been hurt in the past?
or are her actions louder than her words and that's why you may not exactly believe her love for you
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What sort of signals are you looking for?
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She says that she loves me too. But I just can't feel it...
What makes you think so?
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What makes you think so?
Its in her voice... its not satifsying.
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I can never get a proper signal on her.
I think not getting proper signals is also the reason of her texts not coming back for 4 hours. Buy her a better phone.
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Its in her voice... its not satifsying.
My honest opinion is this:
You seems to be paranoid about rejection or you have low self esteem.
I see you have another thread where you are complaining that a girl is not not texting back to you immediately. Now you are complaining about you are not getting love signals from someone who says she loves you based on her voice.
Find a therapist Paa Jee , your problem seems to be bigger than anybody here can handle unless they have a degree in human psychology.
P.S.
1. Another thing is that so far nobody in the history of mankind could figure out why woman behave the way they behave.;)
2. Do not fret over it you have to learn a lot about how a woman's mind works.
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Is this the same girl that takes four hours to text back?
What kind of signals are you looking for? Material things? Physical affection? Giving your more time? Compliments? What?
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Is this the same girl that takes four hours to text back?
nahi tou yeah kya Romeo ke phuppa hain ke inn pe multiple larkiyaan aashiq hongee?
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Lmao 
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nahi tou yeah kya Romeo ke phuppa hain ke inn pe multiple larkiyaan aashiq hongee?
Well, in the other thread the girl was someone his parents were really keen on him marrying and his dad wanted him to give it another shot.
In this thread he's talking about a girl he supposedly "loves" and I found it strange that he would use the word "love" for a girl who's not responding to his texts...whose voice he has not heard...and whom he's still trying to break the ice with. You don't break the ice with someone you love.
Girl in thread 1: Has not heard her voice. Trying to break ice with her.
Girl in thread 2: Has heard her voice...doesn't think she lowes him.
I might have made dahi out your dimagh, TLK Uncle...but the inconsistencies led me to ask the question.
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nahi tou yeah kya Romeo ke phuppa hain ke inn pe multiple larkiyaan aashiq hongee?
Multiple kahan, neither girl is responding properly :/
OP, if you don't feel she's into you, then don't force it
Re: Force Love
Most of our grievances, disappointments and pain is direct result of our expectations. Do not expect her to love you back, if you can not do this, then you are not in love and shouldn't expect from her either.
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Not everyone reciprocates or acts like they do in movies. You should bear in mind that two individuals are not alike and how you react may not be someone else's reaction and you really can't dictate how the other person reacts. But, yes, you shouldn't deny your inner voice if you seriously feel neglected then sit her down and have a talk. Instead of inferring ask her if she's willing to take the next step forward. You can in the meantime also relax a little and stop contacting her at the same pace as you do. Keep it bi-weekly rather than daily and wait to see if she contacts you when she misses you.
Wait, is this the same girl as in the other thread who doesn’t text you? You got 2 girls on the go? Lol. Keeping your options open eh? Why you stressing over that other girl who doesn’t text you back if you “love” this girl?
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she may just be an awkward/shy/reserved person? if you be too blunt with her it may put her right off? is she not giving you any signs at all?