For whom is it more difficult --

[pinkyy]

Re: For whom is it more difficult –

@NomiCA

Its like the end of a Job…

when do u feel worse?? Resigning or being fired??

What if you don’t want to resign but there may be factors forcing you to do so? :khums:

[Pakilarka]

Re: For whom is it more difficult --

I think its harder for dumpee coz he/she feels rejected and the dumpee cud still have some hope from this relationship.
On the other hand it totally fires back When dumpee acts totally cool and normal. Dumper cant believe that dumpee has no problem with dumper walking away and dumper is not being stopped now dumper starts to feel rejected.

[Khumar]

Re: For whom is it more difficult –

@cutefifa

and what if i say i am the one who has a personal experience… then???

In fact i am the one who is dumper and depressed and he is the one who is dumpee and very cool about all this. Should i post my story here for more gossips (that i don’t want to post my stupid story here) or is it enough for you to believe that i am not speculating anything.

Do you **really **expect your ex to come to you and tell you how miserabl he/she is? Again, that’s the sort of expectation, self-satisfaction and pride only the dumper has, because they aren’t going through what someone dumped is going through

[cutefifa]

Re: For whom is it more difficult --

Do you **really **expect your ex to come to you and tell you how miserabl he/she is? Again, that's the sort of expectation, self-satisfaction and pride only the dumper has, because they aren't going through what someone dumped is going through

Its not self satisfaction or expectations. Its a reality. I am sure about him because we have common friend.
There are some other observations which led me to this conclusion about him. Why you are so stubborn to accept it that it sometimes hard for dumper as well.. ok let me bold the word sometimes it is** sometimes** hard for dumper as well.

Or may be you are not accepting it because you have experience as dumpee. I am talking about when dumpee has no guts to dump the other person so dumpee wait for to be dumped so when time comes for explanation, He/she could blame other party for break-up. He/she creates the situation so that other party will take initiative in dumping. And in these cases, dumper suffers and regrets his/her decision for dumping other party.