just ignore those who tend to take you as someone as ‘bahir ka’ ..but be yourself and have a wonderful time with family you get along with well. Have a great trip to Pakistan. Obviously since I didnt grow up outside Pakistan I can’t give you that POV but I surely can say that we have had alot of cousins who lived abroad but visited Pakistan on a regular basis. We always had an awesome time together. No judging or being cautious at all.