Do you try to look your best when your man is around?
During my first couple months of marriage, I would come home from work and change into shalwar kameez, put the jewelery on and some makeup. Now I come home and change into something comfy (definitely not shalwar kameez) and dont bother with the makeup.
I think I need to start looking pretty again.
I’m a hijabi, and really want to highlight/colour my hair into something drastic. But I’m waiting for a girl’s party where I could show it off, otherwise no one hardly sees my hair, and its always tied up at home…hubby thinks I should just do it anyways, at least he gets to see it.
I’m not married yet, but inshallah will be soon. I will most likely be living with the in laws for a while so will have no choice but to wear something nice when I am at home. No more lazy days for me then
If you want your hair done just get it done. Do it for yourself and your hubby, i’m sure he’ll appreciate it more than the girlies will
An old story of mine. I used to work with a lady whose husband loved when she had her hair colored. He said it was a gift to him. Why? He felt like her new hair color = new woman and it added variety or spice to their marriage
So I say go for it! Your audience of one will love it!
Afshi get your hair colored for your man, not just for the girlies! I used to dress up almost everyday because hubs appreciates it. Since we were blessed with K, i havent done a lot of dressing up but i try not to be in PJs when he gets home.
When we were newlyweds (we kinda still are, hasnt even been a yr since we got married lol) I loved to dress up for him when he came home from work I used get my hair done, put makeup on, wear his fave perfume and all that hoopla ..
Now that Im pregnant I feel like me just making a nice dinner is enough .. I just dont have the taaqat dressing up for him But whenever there’s a party or a daavat I still manage to dress up
I say go for it,i used to dress up when we were first married,now I dont have that time to dress up,but i always am neat and tidy before he gets hom,.thats enough.
