So, an individual who wishes to have her identity concealed has recently had problems at work with guys in her office being romatically interested in her. She wants advice on how to say no and still maintain a functional, positive professional relationship.
Re: For the ladies with a job....
^ well she can always just say No whenever some one ask her out or something.
Re: For the ladies with a job....
say no - make excuse.
he asks again - say no again, make up another excuse
he asks a third time - say no again, make up another excuse.
golden rule with guys - they don't ask after the third time. If he doesn't get the message, then be open with him - he's just way too dense then, poor kid.
Re: For the ladies with a job…
^exactly…
after the third time jus be like…ur ugly n thats why no onez gonna marry u…
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Re: For the ladies with a job....
^ lol ... I have done that :D ..
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Re: For the ladies with a job....
LOL! well there are persistent ones..who can get hostile...just be careful...tell em you are engaged or something...I just tell em that I'm not allowed to go out.
Re: For the ladies with a job....
She should tell them that if anyone found out that she even talked to them she'd be dragged backwards by her father and have her hair tied to the rear car bumper and he'lll drive her home, give her a good beating and lock her in the cupboard until her pops can import an nice village goat herder for her to be forcefully married to.
trust me it works!
she will be able to have her functional positive relationships with everyone...but they will all secretly pity her and not talk to her.