For the Independent women - Depending on others?

[Dil_Pakistan]

Re: For the Independent women - Depending on others?

@BarbieCue

I think it’s just a natural reaction to asking another adult for money, not just spouse. I feel weird taking pocket money from my parents at this age, I feel weird asking my friends for a loan if I ever forget my wallet at home. My khala used to work before marriage, never had to rely on anyone and when she had to ask her husband for money, she felt very weird about it. He understood and he’s been placing the money in a secure drawer ever since. Now whenever she needs any money, she just takes it out of the drawer. Simples.

Feeling weird is not the same as degrading.

I dont like asking money from my parents or friends too.
But with the spouse it’s a different story. i have never felt weird or low, and definitely never felt degrading.