well not allowed to talk dear, respecting the words of my parents :)
Good girl! (Y) And you'll find so much more blessings in your marriage insha'Allah because of obeying Allah's commands and your parents. Insha'Allah, try your best to marry with as many sunnah as possible to start your marriage off to the best start insha'Allah.
It's also so much more exciting and special the first time that you WILL talk, I remember when I spoke to my husband on the nikkah, we kept talking and I just didn't want him to leave, but he had to leave, it was sooo hard. Even though we never knew eachother or spoke to eachother (aside from our first meeting before accepting the proposal), when we started, it was like we always knew eachother. Subhanallah, the barakah of nikkah, how Allah puts love and affection into the hearts of two complete strangers.
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I'm not saying to correspond without permission of parents...Of course it should be with hteir permission, especially if nikah has not occurred...And i think most parents would allow you to correspond once your engagement is official...ther is nothing wrong with that islamically...you are not allowed to meet alone, if you are not married, but you can write to each other and talk with permission....
but mostly nikah is done and then the ruksati part is left to be completed after some time (like in my case)...and in this case there is nothing keeping you from even meeting each other alone, because you are officially married....you do not have to do hijab in front of him and you can talk and correspond with him without any problem, IA.
Good girl! (Y) And you'll find so much more blessings in your marriage insha'Allah because of obeying Allah's commands and your parents. Insha'Allah, try your best to marry with as many sunnah as possible to start your marriage off to the best start insha'Allah.
It's also so much more exciting and special the first time that you WILL talk, I remember when I spoke to my husband on the nikkah, we kept talking and I just didn't want him to leave, but he had to leave, it was sooo hard. Even though we never knew eachother or spoke to eachother (aside from our first meeting before accepting the proposal), when we started, it was like we always knew eachother. Subhanallah, the barakah of nikkah, how Allah puts love and affection into the hearts of two complete strangers.
awww that's really sweet. Hope this happens to me and everyone having arranged marriage :)
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well said as-silk