For all u who are saying you can't talk..why not? There is so much technology now and u should make use of it...e-mails and chatting...use this time to get to know each other...my BIL is getting engaged Inshallah to a girl in Pak (we r in USA) and we got permission from her dad for him to talk ot her, and her dad is religious man, ad understood and said of course, and we are ecnouraging them to use e-mail and chatting services to correspond....when i got married in 1994...i had nikah first and wedding after 6 months, and we were in separate countries...I had spoken to him a couple of times, but no real conversation...but my husband would write to me frequently, and would even call from PAkistan...and it was very sweet bc his letters were very romanitc...and I still cherish those memories...
to u girls and guys dont let this time go just like that...it is a very special time, enjoy it and do not waste it the opportunity...there will never be another time in your life like this time of after engagement/nikah and early married days...
well not allowed to talk dear, respecting the words of my parents :)