For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

What should you do about your children if both you and your wife has jobs that require taking business trips? How much are you willing to sacrifice to achieve ur careerwise ambitions? This goes for both guys and gals.

[Sara516]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

^ Well, they shud make sure one is home to take careof the kids?

If a woman can have a nice career that involves business trips, guy can take care of home :biggthumb

[Danish_Born_Desi]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

^ But isnt it true that most girls seek security by wanting to marry a good provider. Dosnt this clash with the idea of the guy taking over the tradtional female "housewife" role? How many girls wouldnt mind marrying a "househusband" so that they could pursue their own careers?

[Sara516]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

If a woman has a career (not just working to support herself, but works for fulfillment and enjoyment) then i doubt she'd be marrying a man for "security."

[insan]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

@PyariCgudia

Insan, you sound like you are not married. Most unmarried people envision married life as being stuck to your partner by the hip.

I think realistically, after spending all your time with each other, going away from each other for a bit doesn’t hurt things too much. I mean, you can only tolerate so much farting in the bed.

i agree that person should have gap but no so much that person can’t give enough time to a family. today carrer is taking so seriously that it has become more important than anything else. yes is good to have carrer but have limited also.

[Barfee]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

@PyariCgudia

Insan, you sound like you are not married. Most unmarried people envision married life as being stuck to your partner by the hip.

I think realistically, after spending all your time with each other, going away from each other for a bit doesn’t hurt things too much. I mean, you can only tolerate so much farting in the bed.

[Dushwari]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

It is not about ego-tussels.

Hope is that there may be a balance in work and family life of both male and female... and that personal space as well as a common sharing of a secure future, together - both economically as well as emotionally, is deemed fair by both spouses.

Best,

DUSH

@Danish Born Desi

^ But isnt it true that most girls seek security by wanting to marry a good provider. Dosnt this clash with the idea of the guy taking over the tradtional female "housewife" role? How many girls wouldnt mind marrying a "househusband" so that they could pursue their own careers?

[Dushwari]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

for kids, as well. Both have to be there. not just the wife or the husband. i think so.

no one, a new mom or dad would like to miss out on the growing up of their daughter or son or twins or more.

so, the balance between the division of responsibility both inside the house as well as outside of the house should be equitable.

@Danish Born Desi

What should you do about your children if both you and your wife has jobs that require taking business trips? How much are you willing to sacrifice to achieve ur careerwise ambitions? This goes for both guys and gals.

[Dushwari]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

absolutely correct…

the balance is the key for both the family woman and the family male.

@insan

what is a benefit of such a carrer life which does not even give u a time spend with ur family??? making carrer until person get old , hand hanging in the air , can’t walk properly , then die

[insan]

Re: For professional women to get out and away from their homes and husbands.

@Dushwari

for kids, as well. Both have to be there. not just the wife or the husband. i think so.

no one, a new mom or dad would like to miss out on the growing up of their daughter or son or twins or more.

so, the balance between the division of responsibility both inside the house as well as outside of the house should be equitable.

but the fact is howsewive can grow her kids in much better way the one who one go to achive thier carrer. this is a point where first conflict appears and it is family or carrer.

father responsiblity make them feel secure provide them come home spend time, fullfill thier needs of kids and wife.