Yes i am married.. and I have a child
and these options are silly… they are starplus derived options
I would choose neither. And running away is rather a selfish decision.
Life throws a lot of bricks and stones at us… are we that weak that we cant face things?
Id talk to both parties involved and see how we can come to a conclusion. If they make me choose between them both, it means neither of them loves me.. so there 