Re: For Men: your BIL
Move to another country 
The best way to live a good life is move to another country after getting married. Hubby & Wife live alone, can do pretty much whatever they want to:p, no one to answer to, no MIL, FIL headaces etc etc. Basically, in other words ‘problem free life’ 
You can go visit your Parents/BIL/MIL/SIL waighara waighara every year in summer or xmas holidays :D, enough isn’t it?