Re: For Men: your BIL
I am not qualified to answer, but lets make it a MCQ.
A. Talk it out with 'relevant' parties
B. Keep quiet for the sake of 'peace' at home
C. Think about it for days, write a story about it and post it on GS
D. Others (please specify)
Personally, I have seen people much closer to Sali's children than Sala's and rarely complaining about either.