There are two sorts of girl. The one who feels embarrased that all eyes are on her. And the one who is happily convinced that they are. ~~~~~Samantha Armstrong
Okay now I have a question which one are you?
About me, well it depends on where I am at. Lets say I am at a party where I have all these hot guys, as a straight young girl ofcourse I would be the girl in second senario. On the other hand if I was with my mom shopping in Anarkali I wouldnāt want all those paindos (no offense) and purverts looking at meā¦(And please now do not and I say this again DO NOT bring religion into this I want you to tell me about what do you think and about which one YOU AREā¦and then donāt even tell me about the dress-up , that if I were totally covered no one would be looking, ofcourse they wont look because they dontā have anything to look at. Besides its not like I go to anarkali wearing a bikini, I mean I wear what everyone wears here piyari see lawn ki shalwar kameez with a dupatta) so please dont provide any rationalizations with those kind of baatein because I know people have said these things before and will say them again as they are majbor by their adattein.
Jaysa desh waysa bhayees. So lets put religion ASIDE and see what all the girls have to say about themselvesā¦
Though honestly, I think I am the kind of a girl that is happily convinced.
hey our another punjabi kurri is back!! or u were already here ??
anyways in advance or belated i would just say WELCOME!! :HULA:
And as about ur questions... i would definitely go for the first one. cuz no matter where i am... no matter if its all girls or boys or aunties or apni hi family. i just feel ... not really embarrased but confused and a dumb ass. meri tangon main say jaan nikal jaati hay. i get lost and dont know what to do...
meri punjabi jattain!
Thank destiness putar for welcoming me back but I have been back for sometime now, I should have been the one to say what you said so hereā¦WELCOME BACKā¦to you
Hey sweeite why do you feel so confused, I mean I am sure where ever you go the people there wont bite you. Feel confident enough to be your own women, who cares about what others thinkā¦But wait what exactly do you feel? Shy? Are you anti social? Nervous? or what?
..shy would be the word... well not exactly shy... but yeah anti-social kind of person... dont talk much in a bunch of people. there has to be only one or two... or someone im just extremely open with... and such ppl are few
Ahmadi uncle dekho as we all know men have always wanted beautiful, gorgegous, paali paali she women because they can always āsee moreā than āthink moreāā¦:nahnah:
PS: I dont want this thread to turn into a āSEX WARā there is no such thing as man or woman, there are millions of totally individual human beingsā¦Start you campaign from thereā¦
I am a confident girl ā¦ always been like that ā¦ I have hosted ( and organized) some major events back in my collegeā¦ (and school). But still when i was on stage ā¦ right before that there was a bolus histaricus stuck in my throat ā¦ never could take a proper breakfastā¦ !!
I think I like attentionā¦ !! But then in anarkali ā¦ iād say ā¦ chutki bujao or ghaib ho jaoā¦ i donāt like unwanted attentionā¦ nobody does.
Your question presents two ends of teh spectrumā¦ !! If i werenāt somewhere around the far endā¦ i wouldnāt have bothered answering either.
Gooni jee its not about answering if you don't relate to a question.....Its about answering stupid things.....It was my fault I posted my post in the wrong forum where it only attracted brainless guppies and not pple like you who atleast try to make sense.....:)
at last a diff topicā¦
but im not sure abt my answer:confused: maybe maharani u can determine if im the first one or the 2nd..
well i think im pretty confident, puttin modesty aside;)im kinda used to all eyes being on me and i admit i dont hate it, but theres a BIG problem i start blushin badly (not tht i feel embarassed or want to hide somwhere) jus cant help it and ppl start getin amused:mad:
It depends on the situation, I mean I hate it when you are going down to the bazar or something, and there are a bunch of desi idiots, I hate it when they look at you, and start whistling, its just gross. And desis have a very bad habit of staring. But if I'm in a family gathering or a community one, I don't mind, although I am a sorta of a shy person. So, I'll say, both depending on the situation.
both actually. Like today I saw some arab guy at the campus staring at me.
I was flattered, becuz i spent the whole summer in a research lab and it was good to feel human emotions again.
disgusted, because i know these arab guys (not all of course) have the culture of viewing women as nothing more than sex objects (as is evident by their society not trusting women to be able to drive cars for example)
I guess it depends on who's doing the staring. If its someone who i'm momentarily in love with then yeah of course, although I do fight against it.
Also it depends if the guy is viewing you with lust, or with love.
ofcourse I would be the girl in second senario. On the other hand if I was with my mom shopping in Anarkali I wouldnāt want all those paindos 
(no offense) and purverts looking at meā¦(And please now do not and I say this again DO NOT bring religion into this I want you to tell me about what do you think and about which one YOU AREā¦and then donāt even tell me about the dress-up , that if I were totally covered no one would be looking, ofcourse they wont look because they dontā have anything to look at. Besides its not like I go to anarkali wearing a bikini, I mean I wear what everyone wears here piyari see lawn ki shalwar kameez with a dupatta) so please dont provide any rationalizations with those kind of baatein because I know people have said these things before and will say them again as they are majbor by their adattein.
