for girls, is to better to marry..

[sadzzz]

@X2

but an educated liberal saas may put her bahu through the grinder too..
very diff issues, you may not be sophisticated enough, or social enough, polished enough, outgoing enough, fit enough, active enough

PS; yes I have seen this happen..

X2, even an uneducated saas can put one through that..

having said that, saas put their son-in-laws through the same grinder.. seen it happen