I think most guys who do go to clubs are going to get some action. They may not admit to it, but they were.
Most desi girls go to less raunchy places and just typically go for the music an colors. Or like one of those more quiet smooth jazzy lounges...
But dude - we have a HUGE clubbing scene here and nearly every club is filled with raunchy boys and girls looking for temporary meat. If you tell me - I go to the places that are actually restaurants but have a lounge type feel (cross over between an eatery that has music and some couches) that's one thing. But clubs? No. There is nothing clean about them. I generally hated my experience and if you're a regular goer, I doubt you are going just for the music.
U'd be surprised that most guys go with male companions for a "night-out" rathar than action. Ofcourse there are those that go with that intention. It's a break from the usual malls and cafe's