What's your definition of going to a club? Going there with friends just to dress up and listen to loud music, or go there to get drunk, grind and wake up in a strange bed?
TDW: The question is as stands. If you've set foot in a club ever in the past, the answer to #1 would be yes. Regardless of what you did or did not do.
PYC: Clubbing “characters” vary. Some club goers are there to drink and find a match and call it a night. These are the ones to stay away from.
Mostly, when in college everyone most probably has been to the club at least two or three times to figure out if “clubbing” is them. They usually do not like the smoking, drinking, and wild atmosphere and choose not to be a “regular”.
These are the ones to keep. They are the educated ones.
I have been there for loud music when I was in college. Never tasted the drinks, never liked the smoking atmosphere. Wished there was “virgin” clubbing… meaning there was no drinks, and smoke, just loud music.
Yeah same here. Except I have incriminating table dancing pics from college and I did have a drink but it tasted like human sweat.
Yes
Yes, but his experience with clubs has to be more like mine. ie. No random sex.
I haven't been in one in years. Only go to more upscale lounges to make an appearance for work-related social events. I leave as soon as everyone starts getting tun. That way, no one realizes I'm such a party pooper. I'd rather spend my free time surfing GS.
I enjoy singing so I have been to karaoke bars...took my mother with me as I didnt want any desi ppl seeing me getting the wrong idea
it depends...If i was sure they didnt drink and engage in physical intimacy with anyone yes I wud marry them, however no problems there as hubby has never seen a night club :D
We (group of 3/4 very good friends) started clubbing AFTER getting married. Well when I say clubbing I mean we just used to play snooker, arcade/video games etc at club and never took on the dance floor.
Whenever we had a meetup, order of the day was that we (guys) used to sit kids while wives go on shopping spree during day time and once they are back, its was our time.
Here is the kicker, one weekend, wives INSISTED to go to CLUB too. They said either "we all go, or no one goes". Since that day, we have not roamed even in 100 meters of club :)
As far as 2nd question is concerned, whatever she has done in the PAST, its her PAST. We decided in our early days of marriage that whatever we have done in PAST, is done and over with.
PS: At max we have taken wives to LV casinos to play ;)