Re: For Da Boyz: Clubbin'
@aahnmad
I know how it is.
I was dragged into clubbing and strip bars by friends often.
1-clubs.
I was shy. I did how ever get attention from chicks all the time. I hated club where there was only dance floor and no sitting areas.
One of close dude has non paki gf(2 kids too), she adored me. She use to take me to dance floor and make me dance with her. Since I was shy and stuff. Friend never mind it. He actually use to tell her to make me dance. They felt guilty to force me to be there. And wanted me to 'enjoy'. After so many years I still hate them for not letting me watch a documentary about 'deception and magic' on BBC on a sat night. I searched for that move a million time on web cant find it.
2-strip bars.
I became friends with police-officer, who was a big time loser. He said he had plan to have lots of fun. But every time we end up going to strip bars.
I was drunk in love at that point AND had a EVIL MIL causing problems(as always) so there was this older Greek stripper who use to come talk to me and give me advice. She was more like an aunt to me then any thing else.
Marry a girl who go to clubs::
In arrange marriage it NO NO.
But hmmm If a get a wife who has a thing for that kind of life. BEFORE I pack her stuff. I will make an effort to make her see what I see.
In that case I will watch for 2 things.
1-does she have uncontrollable urge for men. Or its some thing she once did.
If its some thing she did and now its not part of her life. I will be ok HOWEVER
Get this::
I have one friend his 55year old aunt.
1-was caught in most happening club in downtown.
2-She use to go to male strip bars.
3-she use to watch channel(39) gay/les/naked all the time(her niece told me)
4-she had a strange way to keep men around her. And making her hubby ok with it.
5-she did Paper-marriage with a person to get papers.. and slept with him often. When guys wasn't willing too.
That I can't handle. U know what I mean??