Re: For a limited time only
God my brain. Some tie Jimmy to cafe and leave him there. He "floods" more than a 15 year guppan who just found out what the internet it.
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Q1. I get why u let a girl down by ignoring her and saying u deserve better. but then why do u pop back into our life's a few months down the line when we r finally getting over u and tell us the love crap all over again?
Q2. what will it take for u to tell a girl why u really screwed up the relationship?
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Why we come back? Simple. Regret or to get us some. Basically it is a need for us to feel better and we know you shall provide it. Also because it could be entertaining.
The real reason? Never. If a guy didn't tell you in the first place, he will never tell you.
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Why are 'most' men so lazy? Are they born that way? What part of "its your job to take out the trash" don't you understand?
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No more so than women. The problem with this "lazy situation" is that women say something and the expect it to be done right away. Taking out the trash is low on our priority. The game on the TV is high on the priority. Women confuse their desires as what men consider important. Basically its a form where the man has to do what the woman wants at the time she wants or he is lazy.
Basically its the guy telling you, shut it. I got better stuff to do and I will do it later.
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Then next question - would you rather be the one taking the girl home to mum or should mum be bringing the girl to you?
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If the guy has the chance. He wants to take the girl home.
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im engaged,getting married some time this year,n i know that the guy cares for me..but the problem is that its always me who calls him up n stuff..i know he is really lazy but shdunt he be paying some attention to me??i v always been pampered by my family,n im quite used to gettn attention all the time,so im a bit upset when he just doesnt show any emotions,or even give me a call...wat am i supposed to do???
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Basically you say you are spoiled and you are upset your hubby doesn't spoil you even before you married him. Am I the only one that sees the problem in this? You are expecting too much when you have given nothing to get this attention.
What are you supposed to do? Nothing. He will eventually come around.
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in general, do desi guys prefer long dark hair??
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Whatever makes you look sexy. Some women can really knock you out of your socks with just a bob cut. Men don't care unless it has some oomph.
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Why do you need your wife to cook for you? Why can't you make the food on your own, or share responsibilities and sometimes cook for your wife in return for getting cooked food? Especially if she has a job and other responsibilities.
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Because that is what we have seen in our families. That is what society dictates and because we work the long hours and do all the rest of the work. Also if you have issues with cooking food, he should have no need to buy food for the both of you when he eats.
But at that stage you aren't in a marriage. Might as well get him a girlfriend. Marriage is about compromise and building a life together something most desi women do not get.
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gurus, please answer the age old questions. can a man be trained/changed? especially during a relationship, be it bf-gf or during the course of a marriage.
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Men will do whatever is needed to get into your pants. The change is merely a deception to get you in bed. Then its back to our old ways. Why do you think women complain about men. As the reality goes "Women complain their husband is not the man they married after they spend 20 years changing him."
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Really? Not ANY of the girls a guy knows can be considered as sisters? Really? Not ANY of them? What about female cousins? Do they harbor crushy wushy feelings for all of them as well?
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Cupcake you should know better. There is no black or white in such relations. Not everything is sexual either. My sister is my blood. Nobody will ever reach that level. Not anybody. What you get is a varying level of grey in between. Where you consider them asexual beings. Its about how you are brought up. Female cousins are not seen as women. They lack gender. While nearly every woman on the street must be checked out.
To add to what our dear PCG and you have stated cupcake, men do not see everything in a sexual manner. We however do check you out and appreciate Allah's natural talent at producing works of art. He also has his bad days.