I hate going back to the same issue that’s raised in practically every thread - but if she’s working exactly as much as you do (same hours and level of professional responsibilty) - then shouldn’t you share to the extent possible household chores and childcare and get your own sammich? Or is a guy’s expectation that she works but at a less stressful job than his, with easier work hours so she can look after hearth, home, kids and herself and her biggest baby, her husband?
I can and I will 