I was at the movies last night with my sisters; there was a young couple sitting in the row in front of us. The couple was very touchy-feely and feeding each other popcorn via mouth-to-mouth instead of hand-to-mouth. In other words, kissing and passing on popcorn from one mouth to the other, in addition to the exchange of saliva. I found this pretty odd. My first thought was “what a strange way of showing affection.”
A couple in "love" can use a variety of ways to show affection, love and trust towards each other. Are you more curious on the mouth-to-mouth pop-corn feeding or are you questioning how much is too much in terms of public display of affection?
Faisal, public displays aren’t my concern here. I’m all for them, within a limit. I guess I’m wondering about the popcorn thingy…I mean, it’s popcorn in the theater but who knows what it is at home…maybe chewed up bubblegum or worse. Anyhow, to each his own I guess.
Nothing wrong with it Moona. Chewing gum or eating food from your beloved’s mouth, it’s all good and “sexy”…BTW, if you think it’s disgusting then you should wait til you get married with someone you love!!
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I mean, it's popcorn in the theater but who knows what it is at home
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You want the whole sex-guide here? Come on. Reign in the imagination. You will find out soon enough. Insha allah.
CorruptAngel and Faisal, Ms. and Mr. Liberal, don’t try to gang up on me please without having a clue as to what I am saying. Thanks. As far as the remarks, you guys are assuming waaaaaay too much about me and how I am/am not.
Ok, so exactly what are you saying? You didn’t like them sharing a pop-corn? Big deal. Get over it. Or get your own. What exactly are you trying to discuss here?
How on earth do you know about the saliva exchange thingie? Could you actually see it? Quite gross I must say. The rest is okay I suppose as long as the popcorn wasn't chewed or anything. Maybe a bit too much for public display acc to desi norms.
Nothing wrong with it Moona. Chewing gum or eating food from your beloved's mouth, it's all good and "sexy"...BTW, if you think it's disgusting then you should wait til you get married with someone you love!! :-)
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i AM married and i love my husband very very much, but please , give me a break !!!
This type of affection is not appreciated among the older goras, they really are repulsed by it, and so am i.
Its not a question of mean. Its basically trying to figure out what irked you so much to be starting this thread. Pop-corn? Saliva? mouth-to-mouth? What?
Can I ignore this message please coz it doesn’t make any sense to me. And I’m not assuming “waaaaaay too much” about you, I just said that you were staring too much and you actually were so there’s nothing wrong I said or did I?
CHUSKA I didn’t say every married couple does it. I meant to say that it’s nothing so strange. People who like to express their affection to their spouse in variety of ways do it! And WHO cares what older or younger goras think? Do you? I don’t!
CorruptAngel, yes you are assuming WAY too much. How the heck do you know that I was staring or not!!! It could’ve been only a quick glance or two for all you know!!! Quit the assumptions, girl!
ufff! achaa achaa you weren't staring them and I was wrong, happy?? Moona you are too easy trust me. Anyways, please don't get upset. Remember: someone who doesn't know you can't make you upset! :D
i AM married and i love my husband very very much, but please , give me a break !!!
This type of affection is not appreciated among the older goras, they really are repulsed by it, and so am i.
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older goras who belong to "conservative" class would have a problem with that, sure, as does our conservative upbringing.