Naik, you know that I will never say 'No' to you.
PS. Say 'Yes' to immorality.
What is flirting?
I know that sometimes guys crack jokes and make fun of me, infact that happens a lot(especially at work), is that flirting? I dont think it is because I am always defending myself or just laugh it off.
Learn to love yourself, then learn to love one-another
Could it be that they’re just making fun… not necessarily ‘of you’?
Group flirtations are a little tricky and could be limited to humour.. one on one are the best
Yaar, there can never be anything as group flirtation. This is more like mocking and making fun in a bad way; or may be to get attention.
NAIK LARKI… i agree with u there… thats exactly my point… see ppl… hmmm… “FLIRTING GREAT FUN”??? …god… so sad… so sad…
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… may the god put allaya on da right track… AMEEEEN…
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FEEL SORRY 4 u guys… the worlds gonna end… so sad
Well I dont work anymore, but they definately were poking fun and had a laugh at me! I took it all because I have brothers and well, I am used to that sort of joking. They’d crack jokes like I wasnt too smart cause im part pathan, and that I just dream I can cook but really cant, and they’d make fun cause I dont date, just little comments like that. If I took them seriously I would have been very upset..but I didnt.
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Seems like you did the right thing Munni..
now that you explained it.. It appears to be a case of office bullying more than flirting.
I think it wasn't too nice of them not to notice how you were taking their comments. I personally limit my jokes/flirtations etc to someone who can retort. that's where the fun is.. otherwise it's just harrassment.
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watching Naik Larki’s nose grow
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culd it be kay sacchay aashiq only have saaycull as their primary means of transport?
PA yar, too bad SADI ditched you, otherwise I think you are a great guy.
*Not So *Naik Larki .
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Pyar before marriage is haram.Not flirting!
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“saccha pyaar” is not haraam at all so why not go for saccha pyaar instead of flirtatation–even if its for few moments, an hour, a day(or just a night) a week, a month or blah blah blah–…huh"
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AAhAaN
You are more sinister than rest .What you are practicing is a form of MUTA.which even shia noew have givn up on.In the name of "sucha pyar"you are doing sin be it for 1 hour or 1 day.
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Usse thho behter hai flirt karo ,& not hide your illicit affair (without commitment of marriage sanctification)behind CREATIVE WORDS invented by Very Devious Designing LARKI "sacha pyar"Yeh kisse chireye ka naam hai?
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Chin-o-arab hamaara
hindostaan hamaara
muslim hai hum, vatan hai saara jahaan hamaara
See guys i told you, i am not keeping up with the recent fatwas…Allah muaf kare itne din tak bhul bulekhay gunnah kerti rahi
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From now on “NO” to saccha pyaar and “YES” to flirtation…ab khush?
Roman bao, under the light of recent fatwas and circumstances…YES YES YES!!
*Chalak *Larki
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Where does it say "yes to ANYTHING"My understanding is Flirting only relatively speaking to “succha Pyar” is less sinister NOT TOTALLY HARMLESS EITHER.In fact its playing with fire
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Ab tumhari shhadi bahut jaldi hojane chaye ya pakar ke kar deni pare gi .Agar abba huzoor ishaara nahi samjh rahen tou "dhakka de ke samjhao"bahut walid ke nazar maine bacche hi rahte haine saare zindagi .Aur phir Shaadi sunnat hi nahi balke har baaligh (jo ke tum ho) per Faraz banta hai .
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door ke dhol suhawan
Familiarity breeds Contempt
Flirting is when you intentionally 'tease' someone you are interested in!
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Originally posted by Khairun Nisa:
*I work in an environment where supposedly friendly remarks are thrown around the room without any restraint, and I find them to be very disrespectful and utterly demeaning, even if its not directed at myself (I don't tend to get too close to boisterous male co - workers - I like my "space").
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Do you work where I used to work? :)
The best thing is to ignore and show others with your own actions that its not 'normal' to flirt with every Tom, Naik & Roman.
Show them with your own stong character that you are strong & can control temptations!
Yusuf khan, yeh tum naam badal badal ke mujhay mushwaray dena choro aur meri eik baat ka jawab doo.....aur just one word in reply will do, there is no need to speechify....
mujh se shaadi karo ge?
Were you the guy with the nice smile?
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I actually don’t have a problem, because I have unspoken “regal” boundries which I will not trangress and neither will others, so I feel as if I am treated with a lot of Respect, espescially from the male co - workers.
At the very least, I don’t get remarks (with sniggers) like “what have you been upto all night?” if I’m feeling tired in the morning!
So, yes, I think that having a strong character with lots of work to do, as Shirin says, does solve the problem.
There is also a fine line between teasing (which can be insensitive) and friendly flirting.
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i have been flirting all my life and belive me its great fun if you have a sensible head over your shoulders and you dont go overboard
i have been flirting all my life and belive me its great fun if you have a sensible head over your shoulders and you dont go overboard
none my girls are complaining about me they all cherish my moments with them
feel really sorry 4 u kabir… i really do feel sorry… may allah forgive u … which seems unlikly
Kabir:
Exactly .... as long as you dont go overboard and make your relationship based on friendship (your flirtation doesnt take a hideous turn). Flirtation just to get some laughter out from the opposite sex or see what astounding things the opposite sex can do in the presence of another can be really fun.
I used to be a very pleasant flirt ... never sexually aimed my interaction and i have very nice friends (still even though i'm married, i introduced them all to my wife, guys and gals).
Flirting with your mouth is different than flirting with yer sexual desire .... there's a very distinct line between the 2 things.
GammaDilation, I think people like you take it only in one way ... flirtation means to look at ur opposite sex like a sexual fanatic ... that aint flirtation thats LUST .... thats ur inability to get along in a nice way (or in a gathering) or be social enough to earn some liking from others.
Its our Wits that make us MEN .... 'Braveheart'
Yahooooooo…Larki ne haa kar di :Hehe
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so so Naik Larki
haan haan maine tum se shaadi karoon ga
Abhi isse waqt Eid se pehle maine shaadi ke liye tayaar hoon .Kam se Kam ek laarki ke izaat aur imaan to bar qaraar rahe ge .insaniaat ka sawal hai
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Yahoooo Yahooooo chahe koi mujhe junglee kahe …ab baraf bhi girne wali hai hum roll karenge jungli ke tarah Yahoooooooo
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