suppose your husband flirts with someone in front of you would you say anything of it at that point or confront him later at home?
with flirt I mean eye contact.. smile.. then again eye contact.. wagera wagera..
It happened to me once.. in the plane.. on the way back to uk from pk. and I absolutely freaked out when I saw it happening.. and the worse thing.. the women had a husband too .. and he was busy doing the stuff to me which made me even more angry they even had a baby girl! people are unpredictable.
I shouted at my husband and people around us were staring at us.. and I was talking in urdu so everyone understood what I said.. now it seems funny but at the time I could strangle him..
I would defo say something but try and keep it discrete tho I know that's easier said than done in the heat of the moment when ur angry.. Keeping quiet would mean he had the green light to go ahead and keep doing it (but I suppose if he really wants to he could always do that and worse when ur not around :()
Oh.. didn't realise the guy was giving u the eye as well lol
To be quite honest.. ehm.. yes .. it happened today in a shop and thats why Im asking should i confront or not.. but I have kept my mouth shut at the time.. and even now I'm being as if I didn't notice.. however I did give him the feeling that I am upset when it was over.. but if he sensed it I don't know..
My boyfriend looks at other girls…but he also tells me..like “OMG…look at that girl..she is sooo pretty!!” and if something happens..like a girl initiates the flirting, he is always so surprised and he tells me…I don’t make a big deal out of it..but I do ask LOTS of questions…and he knows I get jealous…
Maybe just talk to him…or flirt with another guy and see how he reacts
O man that genius son of a gun .. what a great way of making all the flirtings halal, act surprise, tell your girlfriend and continue - off course. Why did not I think of that before.
suppose your husband flirts with someone in front of you would you say anything of it at that point or confront him later at home?
with flirt I mean eye contact.. smile.. then again eye contact.. wagera wagera..
It happened to me once.. in the plane.. on the way back to uk from pk. and I absolutely freaked out when I saw it happening.. and the worse thing.. the women had a husband too .. and he was busy doing the stuff to me which made me even more angry they even had a baby girl! people are unpredictable.
I shouted at my husband and people around us were staring at us.. and I was talking in urdu so everyone understood what I said.. now it seems funny but at the time I could strangle him..
what would you do.. sabr.. or talk it through..??
I would be like, this is perfect, you're flirting with his wife, he's flirtin with me... this is so much fun! we should do stuff like this more often. After all we are kinda bored of each other now, it's time we start looking around and stuff, what do you say dear?
^I was going to say same thing. Since when is making an eye contact counts as flirting?. I make eye contact with everyone i talk to..does that make me flirtatious in nature? This is absolutely outrageously ridiculous in my opinion that when person is making eye contact and smiling..he/she is flirting?. You definitely need marriage counseling for sure..no doubt about that!!.
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