flirting time ..

do u think its wrong to flirt with people in the time period where u r about to be engaged but u are not engaged officially yet ? yes or no and why ?

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Define "flirting".

Do you mean a bit of a giggle and a fluttering your eyelashes, or full on late-night conversations and sexy texts?

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I would suggest you contact a learned aalim.

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of course not

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I'm guessing that if you have to ask this question, then you don't feel 100% comfortable with it. You have a conscience/moral compass within you that lets you know when something doesn't feel right. Listen to it. Or try placing yourself in the other person's shoes (the one on the receiving end of your actions) and think about how they would feel. That can help you figure things out. Problems arise when people are misled by our actions or misinterpret them. There's a potential for people getting hurt and for your actions coming back to bite/haunt you.

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who else to flirt with duh!!

its the most beautiful time period bla bla bla bla

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Oh twadi! Think globally, act locally.

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The very fact that you had to post it here to get opinions means you KNOW that its not normal… you’re just looking for validation for your wrongdoings… not gonna happen.

Try to create a life for yourself, seems like you don’t really have much of one. :no:

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When in doubt...do without.

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we are muslim and we dont flirt before nikkah. :snooty:

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^so those who flirt before nikah…are non-muslims…:clap:

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why flirt ? sharafat sey zindagi nahi guzari ja sakti kiya !

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so you are saying, before nikkah we dont flirt, after nikkah we only flirt with one person,
yar thats not fully utilizing the meaning of the word

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:rotfl:

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^

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Flirt :konfused: Can you define this terminology :cobra:

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theory or practical :konfused:

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flirting is wrong only if/when it becomes illegal

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Bhai aap he bata do Flirt kis chirya ka naam hay :sunnyboy:

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yeh cheez ya chirya nahi hai. abhi kay liye yehi samjh lain kay yeh aik ACT hai. jo kay amoman do mukhalif sinf kay darmiyan hota hai. :wink: