one wedding.
Isn’t that low of parents? Ruining their poor kids special day …imagine ten people in a row..Allah jee..paison ki kami ho tho alag baat hea..but jesus..why do some pakis not even realise how much of a special day a wedding is..
This is not in regards to myself btw. It’s this lady who i know from here ..witch.
I think its a girl thing. I dont really think guys are that fussy about weddings. Gimme two gawahs and a bride and i,m ready to go. But yeah, they couldv made it better by adding another couple and make a perfect darjan.
It's a good job you're not a Moonie then ducky.
Wait, I'm confused. Some woman forced all five couples (her children?) to get married on the same day? Or was it the choice of the people getting married? More details please?
ive always thought that we will get our twins married on the same day, I dont think thats too bad, but FIVE is a bit much!
zulu, i don’t know whether they are forced or not..my business is primarily with the fact that 10 people got wed on one function. Crazy..wouldn’t you want to have your own day?
nands, fair enough. My and my bro whos like 24 now will probs get wed on same day, that’s cute 
But 5 ladkay 5 ladkiyan one wedding… 
daiiiimnnnnnn… 5 couples in one day, one event? id NEVER do that, not even with any ONE of my siblings. its MY day and I want it to be just MINE. :queen:
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wouldn't you want to have your own day?
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Heh. I'm the wrong person to ask since I'm incredibly anal and well, to sum it up unambiguously, almost (key word) narcissistically self-involved. I've always pictured the perfect wedding being a day dedicated to me myself and I, as dear Reemzy expects for herself (and every other girl around the world who's grown up watching the crap we do or growing up in a society after all, we are all ill-fated as desites to belong in one) comprised of the middle and/or upper class. Inshallah, my wedding will be just as complete as the next deluded girl's, from the invitation to the reception, of course not neglecting to include the absolutely crucial mehendi, youngster's party, nikaah, dinner, and all that other good stuff that a wedding would be incomplete without. Of course, this is what's to come from an arranged marriage - an arranged wedding, with my beautiful taste only showing in just the right areas, the choice of colors, the decor, the theme, the place, and of course, the gorgeous outfits.
I'm sure these people have a reason for deciding to make it a group event though; we could always make it interesting and pretend to at least consider the idea that they may belong to an elite group that just must do everything together or it wouldn't be right (their worlds would spontaneously combust or smth). But more realistically, they're probably part of the less-priveledged struggling so and sos in the world (damn them for not having daddies like ours) and can't afford to spend the dough we'd be more than happy to in their place. I still don't know what could possess a person to decide to make it a group thing without having it be forced upon them as in the case of people with financial problems (think of all the bad presents you'd be getting - nobody's going to be able to spend a decent amount on 5 gifts all at once) but whatever, you should be happy really, at least you won't have a hard time looking for new outfits and worrying whether or not anyone would notice you'd just worn the same one twice in a row (that's also always a problem where I'm at).
five? thats nothing DD.
Ppl do 50 at a time in pinds in sindh. its to save money. plus, they do that in turkey too i think. i remember reading some newspaper article abt that.
I know a family here who got all 3 of their daughters married on the same day at the same event. All 3 couples were sitting in a line next to each other. It was weird. I personally wouldn't do it and would be pissed off if my hubby suggested it!
DD motoo, I see what you are saying. You don't wana give FIVE gifts for one dinner. Buhat pait may dard horaha haina.
I would like to know if guests do actually give out five gifts.