First Love

[Desii_Fly_Chick]

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now whaa ..

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

individuals never ever forget their ‘first love’…i’ve created a grave of her memories deep down in my heart which i visit sometimes and shed a few tears.

Mujhey pata bata doo main qabar per pani aur phool ki pattian daal deya karoon ga…

[BombShellBabe]

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Everyone remembers their first love.

But do girls 'value' their first love more? And guys are eventually a lot more bleh about it?

By value I mean that their always remains a tiny space, deep in their hearts where they have hidden all the mix tapes, love letters, emails, hugs, kisses, photographs, memories etc, where as guys just get over it and are alot more non chalant about it?

I do understand that this is a very general question and each individual is different, but surely there is a majority and minority. My question is, which way do the scales tip? Girls or guys?

I don't know but I talk about him a lot.. He does have a soft space in my heart but it is leaning towards hatred... That is an on-going fight with my own self.. "Like Baby Baby Babyyy...OOohh. I thought you'd always be mine.. I can't believe my 1st love wouldn't be around... Baby Baby Baby...."

[partyslims]

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@BombShellBabe

I don’t know but I talk about him a lot.. He does have a soft space in my heart but it is leaning towards hatred… That is an on-going fight with my own self.. “Like Baby Baby Babyyy…OOohh. I thought you’d always be mine.. I can’t believe my 1st love wouldn’t be around… Baby Baby Baby…”

Da jastan da babar your farst loave

[Pryvate_Pigeon]

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i've created a grave of her memories deep down in my heart which i visit sometimes and shed a few tears.

That is the gayest thing I have ever heard

[BombShellBabe]

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@Pryvate_Pigeon

That is the gayest thing I have ever heard

Love is a very deep emotion.... No one has a control over it. Making fun of true love is not a very nice thing...

[ParizayBabz]

First Love

I think it's the opposite. I've seen my female friends forget their first love but the male ones don't. Never fallen in love before but I still remember my first crush haha if that counts :)

[BombShellBabe]

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@ParizayBabz

I think it's the opposite. I've seen my female friends forget their first love but the male ones don't. Never fallen in love before but I still remember my first crush haha if that counts :)

Oh yes, I have forgotten him too :)

[AhmedFayyaz]

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[Ghost14]

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@BombShellBabe

I don’t know but I talk about him a lot.. He does have a soft space in my heart but it is leaning towards hatred… That is an on-going fight with my own self.. “Like Baby Baby Babyyy…OOohh. I thought you’d always be mine.. I can’t believe my 1st love wouldn’t be around… Baby Baby Baby…”

@partyslims

Da jastan da babar your farst loave

Yaar da jastan got the boing boing saaxy ishtyle happening samjha karo

[GlobalGal]

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@The_Jinx

My first love was never mine so I let it free, let it go. It was not worth it. Someone can change the behavior overnight was a shocking experience. I had heard stories about it, read in the novels, saw in the PTV dramas but it never occurred to me that it actually happens in real life until I was shaken.

I was very young (not that I am buddha uncle now, I was very very young just a few years ago :halo: ) and it hit you when it happens the first time. You would not realize how much pain you would feel until you are gifted the pain.

I was all desperate at the event. I tried to talk her out but the response was a cold bloody silence. It was hard to concentrate on studies and work. I used to feel sudden pain even when riding a train or bus. The life, all of a sudden, felt just hollow. I kept on thinking why oh why? What have I done? I still have no clue what happened. But time heals. I learnt that some days are cherish-able in their own unique ways even if they had been hurtful at a point in time in life.

**Now I know it was meant to be such. It was not my destiny. It was meant to happen for me so that I could meet the most important person of my life, my life. Yes my life as the world famously calls it wife. My first true and real love. The previous one was just an illusion.
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I can understand that excruciating pain. it’s not so easy for me because even if he’s made a vow of marriage to the one his parents chose for him. Or he’s hiding behind the guise of being force to marry her or he has no choice…blah blah blah and even more bs. He chose her at the end and he agreed to marry her. His nikaah was last month, his wife i’m guessing still hasn’t gotten permission to emigrate here. He’s still ringing the doorbell at my place, 3 times now saying he just wants to see me, he doesn’t seem to respect me enough to let me move on which adds even more pain. I don’t open the door and I hope I never see him again because the man doesn’t exist for me anymore as soon as he vowed marriage to another woman.

It’s a lot easier to move on when you’ve met a special person as a life partner already and there’s a life long commitment.

How long did it take you to get over it though and reach the conclusion that is in bold that the first love was just an illusion?