First gift

What is first gift you gave to your spouse?

  • First night
  • First Anniversary
  • First Birthday (after marriage)

etc etc etc.

What other things can be given?

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hmm I am not married but here are some options...

First Night- a nice (hopefully expensive) watch
First Anniversary- A nice cologne, few nice shirts and a romantic get away
First Birthday- His favorite kind of cake, A nice day together at an attraction that he would like, a gift card to his favorite stor, and cook dinner for him

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First night: my long awaited diamond ring (got two actually since my husband bought one to fool me with and the other one was a surprise)
first anniversary: a surprise box full of cards with special notes written inside (yes i was surprised to see him write anything besides To and From in them), some cute gift shop items, a pair of chanel earrings (that was actually on my wish list and he got them ) and a chanel necklace, which was a complete surprise
first birthday: he threw a party for me lol and forgot to get a gift soooo I got money instead to buy an outfit of my choice :D
also my birthday gift was getting to spend my birthday with him since we're still living apart sighhh

all together Alhumdullilah he's pretty caring deep down inside lol

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is it the price of the gift or the sincerity with which it is given which matters?

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both are important. obviously not every man can buy his wife a rolex loaded with diamonds but he should get something according to how much he earns. doesn't hurt to buy expensive jewelry once in a while.

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Am not married but I still do give him gifts..

I have given a watch and clothes…but it was never for any special occasion…but I know guys love gadgets..they love watches, and shades and perfumes…

and jst like girls they love to get pampered :wink:

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Is all this gift giving the norm? If so, I'm worried.

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FIrst gift: A complete set of jewlery to be worn on our wedding day.
First birthday: A card, beautifully decorated by him with little sayings of love
First Anniversary: Don't know yet, but I can't wait to find out! LOL

As for what I have given to him, the gifts have been on the practical side. But, each day I give him my love, attention, devotion and loyalty, and respect. A back massage, foot massage, a warm dinner and a peaceful evening are all his each night! Hmmm, can you tell we are newly married? LOL! But seriously, I don't see my feelings or his changing any time soon. It would be nice to know that we never let our lives get boring or mundain. Life is a one time event with this man that I intend on not asting one moment of!

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:rotfl:

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first night: a baby
first anniversary: baby on the hip
first birthday: another baby

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On the 1st night I gave my hubby all of his favorite candies!! & he gave me jewelery! :)

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I didn't give him anything on first night. He gave me a diamond and sapphire bracelet. First birthday I got him a massage chair, and he got me diamond earings we also took each other for an evening out and a meal. First anniversary we both just went on 2 week holiday, and treated each other to various things throughtout (small souvenirs, excursions, meals etc)/