Acha bhaai , jaisay aap kahain 
Pata nahi 
Some women dont care about themselves enough and get out of shape and dont bother to freshen up when their husband come home from work. I think there is a hadees that women should dress up and do make up and look good for their husband. How many women do that ?
No It is not !
I admire beauty of a flower, But i dont necessarily want to eat it too.
Lust is a pathway to carnal pleasures. First wife has first right to be looked at with lustful gaze. :k: