Re: ~FINDING THE PERFECT WEDDING DRESS…& NOT GOING TO PAKISTAN!~
Aweeeeee
you poor thing. So what are you planning on doing? Have you figured something out??? There are so many ppl out there that are willing to make your bridals for you… but i am having a hard time deciding who to trust with so much money and such a big task… its a struggle…
which is why I keep asking people on here about any specific experiences they have had. I would feel more comfortable using someone that one has already used and had a good experience with.
Are you reading my mind? I’m being serious. Ahhhh. Im in the exact same situation as you. If you do not mind me asking.. what is your back up plan if the in-laws do not come through and you feel too guilty about burdening your fiance? I feel the same way because we are buying a condo, furniture, and obvi going on a honeymoon … all paid for by him. Which is amazing… but I do not want to burden him further.
I also do not want to burden my parents by asking them to pay for an “arm and a leg and more!!” –
man… i have guilty complex like no other.
It is crazy how expensive it is to throw a decent wedding in the states - especially when u live in the middle of nowhere and there are NO vendors. :sigh:
Can not go to england for one of the same major reasons I can not go to Pakistan… its a good idea in theory but realistically not so much because I can not take that much time off from work. Even an extra day or more. This is because I am using all my days for shaadi time/walima/honeymoon.
So no can do with that. But it was a luvely suggestion. Thank you.
I do have some designs in mind… but its just a matter of finding someone that I trust who will make what I want and not charge me an arm and a leg for it. Do u have any websites/contact info for UK designers/shops who could give me quotes for the pics i send them?
Sara516 mssged me and gave me their info - thanks! I contacted them!
Yaar - you are more than help … our chats relieve so much of my stress!
Can’t wait till our next msn date… its gotta happen soon! So much to discuss!!!
And btw- I am TOTALLY going to contact/visit Deeba with Mr. PR … but we are going there more in regards for the Walima outfit … not the shaadi outfit. So it is still something to stress about :sigh: InshAllah I hope to atleast find something for Walima and that will be one less thing to worry about tho!
p.s. totally wish I was going to pakiland with u … we would shop till we dropped! ahhh… i’ll just have to live vicariously through you when you go!!!
Thanks - I will check you guys out.