finding rishta

hi guys
i want to know how do people, who live out of pak, get married and get good rishtas.
I am punjabi and dont live in pakistan. most of my aunties or uncles who have married out of the family have been mostly disappointed. these people after wedding turn out to be something different, drinking, not working and doing other bad things.
several times our family started them good businesses but they dont turn out to be good.

here in aust, not my punjabi people live, so no chance here.
but if in pak and anyone know finds out that we live in aust, they will do what ever it takes to marry for papers.

so what should a person do.

Re: finding rishta

how about shadi.com ??

Re: finding rishta

Naseeb?
Or just try to get to know ppl here on GS… :wink:

aiklarki thi..there is a risk in ALL shaadis..doesnt matter whther its in australaia or paksitan.. best u can do is find out about the ppl's background b4 the marraige desont matter where they live..nothing is blakc n white..so cutn dry like u think..so set in stone..that 'all the people threyr r like this..nd all the ppl here all liek this'..

Re: finding rishta

just pray to Allah.

Re: finding rishta

May u stay happy amin amin amin

Re: finding rishta

Are there any Punjabi Kurraz on GS that reside in Australia?

Re: finding rishta

first thing try to find someone nice paki muslam boy or grl. sect dsnot matter, secondly do istikhara before finalizing thing for shadi, pray , ALLAH TALLAH will help u INSHALLAH,