Re: finding a good and compatible Rishta from Pakistan....
I am wondering for groupies could share their knowledge in this. Here is my story.
One of my daughter fell for someone in Karachi, as we found the guy is very nice, and decent person (we all like him), but worried about his ability to settle successfully outside Pakistan due to lack of professional qualification (he is just B.COM).
Not wanting to dictate anything to him, i gently encouraged him to work toward some sort of professional qualification, but he is not interested as he has no intention to work for anyone but to do his own business. Problem is though he belong to a decent family but does not have enough capital to setup his own business.
That already give me lot of headache and worry about my daughter's future.
Now another one, her younger sister who is doing very well in her career, i am also looking around for her as well, when she was given responsibility of Pakistan i was quite happy as hoping that by frequently visiting Pakistan she would somehow meet someone. But she found most of that professional guys (at least in her environment) have lifestyle issue as they all drinks which is not acceptable to us.
Here is the situation,** most** (not all) of person with right values somehow does not have professional qualification suitable. And those who are professionally successful and competent has lifestyle issues. I would like to hear what others has to says about it.
you have to compromise somewhere or some point ,u find some issues everywhere whether its a middle class or elite /educated class