Your poor dad like my grandad didn’t do himself any favours.
I understand there will always remain pressure to support widows and divorcee sisters-as far as I’m concerned if they were able to marry once they are able to marry again. Noone should be burdened with siblings, aunts and so on. Remarriage, have a family of your own and get on with things.
But nephews and uncles?! I’m sorry but don’t they have hands too?! Shame on them for accepting the financial help. Unless they are of course or something of a similar nature that would justify taking help off another family member who has no responsible towards your financial situation.
Noone seems to acknowledge things because they see it as their God given right. I see it as laziness-the only ones with a right would be parents but luxuries is pushing it esp if they are in a comfortable position whereas their children abroad are not.