I’m sorry to hear you had to go through all of that, iA you will like it when it comes. Do give us an update after the wedding, even with pictures and tell us how it all turned out.
Try and remember that although I know these things may seem like the hardest and worst part of it all, but sometimes things don’t go accordingly and its all just part of the process. At the end of it all, its your life afterwards that you have to look forward to because it will all be over in one day. I know weddings are so important but like you said, it could of been worse and it usually always can be. Its all in how you handle it. You seem to be handling it well though and Inshallah, after its all over, this will seem to be a trivial thing. I realized this after I fought sooo much to have the lehnga I wanted as well only to realize its NOT necessarily always worth it.
So basically, my point is to stay positive because at the end of it all, you will only have your memories so try to enjoy it as much as you can as opposed to dwelling on what could of been..you know? Think happy thoughts and relax. Jo hoga…to hoga. Wishing you all the best in these next three weeks and I hope all the rest goes perfect for you Inshallah!