final chapter of the book...this is seriously by last post about this guy!!

[Paheli00]

Re: final chapter of the book…this is seriously by last post about this guy!!

@princessjojo

Why can he not promise you anything? Because he is not serious. He has doubts.

It does not mean he does not like you. Getting jealous doesn’t mean all that much. He lacks consistency.

Liking is just not enough. Who knows if this is just a passing crush for him? A strong sense of commitment is the most important ingredient and that is lacking here.

He is confused himself. That is why he sometimes answers you and sometimes avoids you. In a way, I also feel that he wants YOU to take the initiative and back off. Why? Because that will free him of any guilt, what could have been feelings and trouble.

From another perspective, he might just be liking the feeling of being wanted by someone. So he wants to hold on to you in some ways despite not seeing a future with you.

**If you are not liking the mind games, which you are not, be the first one to end them.
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I hope what ever happens with you is for the best.

I agree with every single word on the above post.

Catwomen: Who cares “why” he’s saying these things to you? You need to focus on his actions. Words really don’t mean much in the long run. Please believe me when I tell you that desis aren’t always logical. Many desis do stupid things that can not be explained logically. I’m sure you’ve read enough posts on this forum to see that already. And sometimes…men are simply a**holes. I’ve seen several cases similar to yours in which the desi guy already had a wife picked out for him in Pakistan.

Whatever this guy’s reasons may be…the bottom line is that this “relationship” is having a negative effect on you. As another poster already stated…if you don’t like the “games” this guy is playing, then end it and move on. Find a guy who will treat you with respect.