final chapter of the book...this is seriously by last post about this guy!!

[catwomen]

Re: final chapter of the book…this is seriously by last post about this guy!!

@princessjojo

Hey Catwomen, I’ve been reading your threads.

You should have cut contact the first couple of times he avoided your calls when he was back home. Anyway. Forget about it. Not for the moment, but forever.

Girls girls girls…don’t go after wishy washy boys. And since you are non-desi, you are in a more vulnerable position. I haven’t read people’s responses but I will tell you that VERY VERY FEW desi people are strong enough to stand up to their parents. And to top it off, that happens when they have so much belief in their romantic relationships that the rest becomes secondary. We have crazy things like emotional appeals/blackmails and what not that make it very hard for the ‘child’ to step out of his comfort zone a.k.a family/culture.

I seriously think you should forget about any 0.05% chances even if they exist.

And one more thing. IF he was serious about you, there is NO WAY he would tell you to date others.

Hope you listen!

He said this because he cannot promise me anything…I said I was not gonna waste my life on someone who could not promise me anything…so thats why he said it but not too tell him as he getting jealous ? why would a guy say this rubbish if they trying to get rid of u!! Surely they should not say this…he could have just said…yes I having a arranged marriage and off I go happy that I know point blank where I stand and no more mind games!!

Another thing…the silly billy asked me..would I change my religion for him…once again why ask such a stupid question if he trying to get rid of someone! Gosh he stressing me out even as I typing this…he is such a dick!