What do you think when we love someone and when we fight with that person at what point those silly fights turn into an ego clash ?
re: Fights turning into a ego clash?
... it turns into ego clash when you keep yapping and stop listening
Re: Fights turning into a ego clash?
You can't control some one else's actions so you can only moderate your own. If they know how to push your temper so you get involved in an argument you have to learn how to recognise the signs and back off. Refuse to dissolve into petty battles and flat out tell them very calmly that you will rediscuss the matter when they have time to think it over. It will take time and nurtuing your own ego to be the one who backs off but staying calm in a heated discussion will make you the winner.
Re: Fights turning into a ego clash?
Be the better person and fix things don't let your ego ruin your relationship
Re: Fights turning into a ego clash?
It becomes an ego issue when you cannot even try to put yourself in the other person's shoes to see where they're coming from. It becomes an ego issue when you can't bear to be wrong and when you cannot even admit your mistakes, let alone apologize for them. It becomes an ego issue when you keep telling yourself that I will never be the first to speak to the person and when you tell yourself that you will "pay back" the other person in the same (if not worse) wrong way they behaved in with you. And when you nurse a grudge over their past mistakes and keep rubbing them in their face.
And these are mistakes we all make. It doesn't matter so much as to "when" it becomes an ego issue because every insaan has an ego to some extent. It's more important to be able to detect the ego and stop yourself, to readjust your thinking before it hurts the relationship and that's not easy to do.
Re: Fights turning into a ego clash?
As long as both parties are honest, any issue can be resolved. Dishonesty kills a relationship. Literally.