yaar you right. that makes sence.
but still sent him to anger management anyway yaar
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^ what if u both provide?
lekin, i see ur point. A man truely does worry about the finances and mortgage repayments a lot more than a woman... why, i dont know.
I worry too, but im more of a spreadsheet type person. As long as I have all my calclulations right, I am ok. But the hubz is right.. my spreadsheets are just all assumptions.
Sara, ur a good wife. Just dont beat urself about it too much.
I think RealityCheck had some really good points there
Nice analogy, I respect tech. oriented women.
Re: Fighting
uff yaar i am trying to help. no tension yaar. my english is bad enough and no people here understand what i say the way i say it.
i say send him to those classes. they help with all kinds of probalmes yaar. help with stress too. my advise is always of value if you undearstand it yaar.
Getting frustrated and stressed out is a part of life, I dont have a problem with that and I know the way I act probably adds to his stress...but when that moment comes I quickly fall back into the old mode of doing what I normally do and find it hard to think clearly....
Would you follow a proven NUSKHA, if I tell you something ?
- Take deep breaths
- Try to physically remove yourself from the situation (go do something in kitchen etc.)
- Read Astaghfirullah and Lahoal repeatedly (wait for five minutes)
- Start from step 1 if you still feel hostile.
My wife and I always use this and it works most of the time.
Re: Fighting
subhan allah reality check
what insipiriation you are yaar
subhan allah reality check
what insipiriation you are yaar
Ahem .... What ?
Baji, you can write in Urdu if you have problems in English (as you stated)
We all have problems in English....:biggthumb