Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

[Crescent]

Lol, these guys are whackooos!
Wouldn’t having an understanding, and at peace , under the banner of Islam, and the guidance of Allah swt be more peaceful and fulfilling?

Also, uncertainty in death will always be there, so why worry about it

http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSN231153520080123?rpc=64

[goodnews]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

I beleive this is tru,
“It’s healthy to recognize that you’re being attacked unfairly and it’s even more healthy to speak up and to talk about it and try to resolve the problem if you want to live longer,” said Harburg."
Zindagi or maut Allah ky hath main tu hy magar yeh ju Mulla her waqat orton ko “so called"Sabar” or woh bhi susral or shohar ky muqably main dyty hain buhat ghalat kerty hain. I went through this situation and always hid my emotions and asked for forgiveness because I thought if I fight back that will be patrol on fire but people who knows me were worried about me that I am going to be like skeleton and will be vanished from face of earth soon.
NNOW:I am sying what I wanna say I am living my life in my way(By the Grace of Allah) and beleive me my health is better then before I think in regards of health yes when you express your emotions it is better warna tu bass, Janat ki asss main apni duniya jahanam banna lo wala formula mujhy tu pasand nahi.
Agar khamushi itni hi mujarab hoti tu Allah ny Aik lakh 24c hazar pyghamber duniya main bhyjy on sab ko gonga ker ky bhyjta. Hazrat Musa ki zuban main haklahat thi onhon ny os ko drust kerny ki drkhwasat apni dua main ki. Or ju log bolny sy derty hain on ky liy bhi yehi dua battai jati hy.

[Sara516]

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@Crescent_

Lol, these guys are whackooos!
Wouldn’t having an understanding, and at peace , under the banner of Islam, and the guidance of Allah swt be more peaceful and fulfilling?

Also, uncertainty in death will always be there, so why worry about it

http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSN231153520080123?rpc=64

Every married couple fights… doesn’t matter how religious they are, what they believe in etc.. scientists are always coming up with ways, to say that one can live longer, of course death is not in our hands, but while we’re living, why not increase the quality of life?

[Sara516]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

@goodnews

I beleive this is tru,
“It’s healthy to recognize that you’re being attacked unfairly and it’s even more healthy to speak up and to talk about it and try to resolve the problem if you want to live longer,” said Harburg."
Zindagi or maut Allah ky hath main tu hy magar yeh ju Mulla her waqat orton ko “so called"Sabar” or woh bhi susral or shohar ky muqably main dyty hain buhat ghalat kerty hain. I went through this situation and always hid my emotions and asked for forgiveness because I thought if I fight back that will be patrol on fire but people who knows me were worried about me that I am going to be like skeleton and will be vanished from face of earth soon.
NNOW:I am sying what I wanna say I am living my life in my way(By the Grace of Allah) and beleive me my health is better then before I think in regards of health yes when you express your emotions it is better warna tu bass, Janat ki asss main apni duniya jahanam banna lo wala formula mujhy tu pasand nahi.
Agar khamushi itni hi mujarab hoti tu Allah ny Aik lakh 24c hazar pyghamber duniya main bhyjy on sab ko gonga ker ky bhyjta. Hazrat Musa ki zuban main haklahat thi onhon ny os ko drust kerny ki drkhwasat apni dua main ki. Or ju log bolny sy derty hain on ky liy bhi yehi dua battai jati hy.

You’re right…its good to speak up when ur being unfairly treated…but there are times when one should just be patient and realize that someone is going through a hard time and as unfair as it may seem, they take it out on u sometimes…the tricky thing is to figure out what situation calls for what, self defense or sabar. .

[hareem01]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

If this is true than South Asians should be living longer than the western people.

[Orpheus]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

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[kaka_in_usa]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

may be thats the only workout most of teh couple do... that explains why they live longer..

[Sara516]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

oh and also fights lead to making up.. which is always nice :)

[Captain1]

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** abhi wapis aata hoon larayi kar ke **

[Crescent]

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@Sara516

You’re right…its good to speak up when ur being unfairly treated…but there are times when one should just be patient and realize that someone is going through a hard time and as unfair as it may seem, they take it out on u sometimes…the tricky thing is to figure out what situation calls for what, self defense or sabar. .

words of wisdom

[X2]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

hmmmm captaan ka kuch ata pata naheen hai,

kaheen larai kay baad pit pita kar kisi emergency room mein tankay na lagwa raha ho

koi uss ki kher kheriat ka andaaza kar kay aaye..

@Captain1

** abhi wapis aata hoon larayi kar ke **

[Faisal]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

... and what about flirting with your spouse?

[James_Bhaand]

Re: Fighting with your spouse can let you live longer!

it only feels longer

[Mirch]

So the same pots and pans which are used to get to the heart of a man by cooking and then feeding him those good meals can be used to have a good fight to keep that marriage alive.
Or When the women do not feel like cooking they can use the same pots and pans to have a good fight to keep their husband happy .