Re: fighting with your significant other
aahmed, what's "a bit longer"? hours? a day? days??
ira, mine's a big time brooder/sulker too, and he sometimes takes 3 days before he's back to normal! as for me, i explode, get it out of my system, and am back to normal almost immediately... so it's hard for me to understand why he needs so long to get back on track. methinks it's quite unhealthy to brood. at first the brooding used to drive me crazy... but now i just go hang out with my friends or do other stuff while he's sulking. i have noticed that if i hang around at home, miserable, or if i call him often, he takes longer to recover... and if i'm out having fun, he stops sulking sooner. i wonder why?!!