Okay so I feel myself as someone that is imperfect and needs to always strive to be a better person. One that is always fighting the urge to judge others. Like my experience with the one guy, talking to him and being around him is that he is a spineless coward but I always give a person the benefit of being human and will have flaws. I keep thinking that he has a good side and a kind side and he just cannot be so emotionless, that human side will shine through but i’m always disappointed it’s just amazes me how totally horrendous this person is. I could’ve chosen to block this person out of my nonvirtual life but it is a situation where I have to be around this person(without getting too specific).
Do unto others as you would want done to you and my quote comes to mind too where we need to be just and fair in how we see others. I just keep thinking maybe it’s me maybe it’s my personality that’s attracting this kind of a person.
Allah forgive me but sometimes we just need to call a spade a spade right? He’s a spineless, coward…there I said it. Aaahh it feels good.
how did “spineless coward” suddenly turn into “horrendous person”? methinks some gaps need to be filled in this story-line in order for it to not be summarily rejected.
Religion requires, as dogma, that others be judged! If you follow the tenants of most, maybe not all, religions, then judging others is a requirement. Certainly for the three Abrahamic religions.
Religion requires, as dogma, that others be judged! If you follow the tenants of most, maybe not all, religions, then judging others is a requirement. Certainly for the three Abrahamic religions.
what do you mean by 'judging others'?
if you mean considering people right or wrong by looking at their actions then you should realize that this sort of attitude is found in people in every area of life, be it governance, business, culture, society, or art.
