Fidelity's going out of style like it's 1999

[Niksik]

Re: Fidelity’s going out of style like it’s 1999

@Sehrysh

Tons of threads out there trolling about this person having an affair or someone not being in love with their partner anymore and finding an emotional connection outside of the marital relationship.

So let’s get serious for a minute: is honouring your marital vows easy or is it something you work at every day? How easy or hard is fidelity?

In other words how real are the tempations to stray from marriage and what makes a person remain faithful? And if they’re not faithful - why not?

I don’t work on being faithful because temptations become tempations only if you look for them. I work on my marriage in the way that I never take my spouse for granted. “Looking” elsewhere is neither an option for me nor a necessity.

So why do people cheat, and so much these days?

1. Because they think it’s OK: lack of integrity
2. Because they are never content with what they have
3. Because it’s easy: so many venues and available help