Re: Fidelity’s going out of style like it’s 1999
So let’s spin the scenario. You have two types of adulterers - those who are serial adulterers who fit into your description of somene who is not loyal. And then you have those people who may have had a single affair and are remorseful about it. Are they the same in their ability/inability to be loyal? and if someone was unfaithful once, can he/she change their ways and learn loyalty?
But what if one or both partners is not emotionally satisfied? What if the affair is an emotional affair instead of a physical affair?
I guess we always take it for granted that coming from a Muslim and South Asian background, that we’ve got better morals than our Western counterparts. But the thaank jhaak and affairs are just as possible in our own community because as you say, unfortunately our morals are changing and what was once unacceptable, no longer has such taboos.