Fidelity's going out of style like it's 1999

[Niksik]

Re: Fidelity’s going out of style like it’s 1999

Yes temptations are out there but you attract what you are…this is what I believe in. See what I’m saying? Temptations don’t just land in your lap.

@Sehrysh

I guess, my question is more about what happens after? Let’s take the fairytale: Guy meets girl. Guy and girl love each other (either before or after they get married). Guy and girl get married. Guy and girl live happily ever after…or do they?

Life after marriage is not fairytales. Real life grabs you by the throat and with time the first bloom of love fades. Everyone accepts that love changes over time and little annoyances sometimes become big annoyances. So, it’s more a question of how do you keep the love AND passion alive?

What I’m looking for is comments on what a non-desi friend once told me. He said that being unfaithful is actually easy. Despite the love one has for their partner, because there are tempations out there, to remain faithful is a conscious choice and an effort that each partner makes on a daily basis.

What say you to that?