Leave him alone he is busy. Some guys are goofs when it come to being romantic. I was one of those guys. She was the one who called then I could talk for hours. But I never had the stomach to pickup the phone and call her. He might be like me. As long as he not being chummy with some other girl you should not worry too much about him not initiating or responding.
ok no offence meant Mirch , if only you guys could be more sensitive to how insecure the poor girl could be feeling, just by the lack of your nerve to initiate and be romantic, then things wouldnt go downhill in the first place. :D
i have exactly the same issue with my fiance. he's usually busy at work. but even when he gets time, being his total cautious self, he avoids long conversations. although i know there's no other woman and he's quite happy. but STILL i need some sort of assurance that he does care :p
and when i question him he gets genuinely surprised and cant even understand why am i so upset :P arrrghh..men... :P:P