Re: Fiance
Thank you for your replies, it is true about engagements not being relevant to religion, and I did also think it may just be nervousness, as i felt pretty awkward at the time.
We don’t talk on the phone or anything at all, and that didn’t really bother me before as I respected that it may not be right and I don’t think I would have been comfortable with it either.
However, as we were there and everyone had gone to so much effort, any normal person would atleast make an effort would they not? To make a good impresson?
Its not as though he was horrible, as he spoke nicely to my parents and siblings, but he just doesn’t seem to make as much as effort with them as I do with his family.
Really? Could you explain further? To be honest it seems to be taking over my life, and makes me feel quite insecure.
It was his side that were so keen for the engagement so soon. My parents made sure to ask him if he was happy with this, on his own at the time and he said he was, so it is all rather confuring.
I don’t even feel able to ask my parents about it because I know it does bother them, and I don’t know what they could really say. I just don’t really know what to do about the whole situation.