Re: Fiance
ofcorse there is .. which Islam have you been studying Luci ..
In time I ll try to open a thread on this where there are 3 ceremonies that are jaiz and mustahab that should be done in Islam.
…Thread Opener: Biggest mistake i think is ..you asked a question at the wrong place .. Life1 of GS .. If you think theres something wrong and dont feel right then confront your parents ..and tell them what you think .. and pass a message on to the guy via your brother or parents to the guy ..asking him ..if he is serious ..or was he just so nervous on the day of the engagement ceremony .. i mean it can happen ..esp if the two of you havnt met before .. or he may have been guided to keep a low profile and stay chup chup but in actual fact he may really be a fun and exciting person ..
what it boils down to .. you cant just just judge a person or his/her personality in just one sitting .. but rather It takes time .. considering your sittaution .. not meeting before, living long distance etc .. so just take time and like you said .. wait and see .. and one thing .. religion should not be an issue .. i.e. if the guy seems religious .. then you are really fortunate to have someone who is like this who accepts his religion and then practices it if it bothers you…