How would you feel if a girl you've been introduced to by your family texts you first, and tells you she likes you and asks to get married really quickly. Says that she'll die if the marriage didn't occur. Also start sexting and shows nudes?
I think people are seriously losing self respect these days but to your question. If she’s showing you nudes who else has she shown them to in the past? Unless of course, you played a part in her behaviour like this towards you. Either way I don’t know what your question is. You’re the guy. Either you’re happy she’s behaving like this towards you or you’re not. Nobody really listens to advice nor could they tell you what she’s thinking or how you’ve both been talking for get her to behave like that. Either way good luck.
Sexting is more common these days. I would be worried like AC said, who else has she been sexting and sending nudes the past and why is she in hurry to get married?
How am I supposed to know whom she has sexted in the past? She says im the only one. But we all know women lie. So it seems she?s very comfortable in showing me. Also we made out as well, and by the look of it she seemed to know how to kiss. Like she wraped her self all over me and was french kissing me. I was like wait… for someone kissing for the first time she knows how to do this really well…
Men lie to but that’s not the point. You made out with her. So you’re in a physical relationship with her. It explains the nudes etc. If she seems “experienced” with your physical activities I dunno what to tell you kid, either believe her or don’t that decision is yours. Good luck with the wedding and future.
Have you kissed a girl before? have you shagged a girl before? Have you already done the dirty with others? If yes, then why so bothered about her ‘expertise’.
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There are many ways to make her say what she was doing in the past. If she is really so interested in you, then she would tell you the truth. Otherwise, lets say she do not have many options.
Real men don?t worry about a woman?s past, if she is into you and into sex than you are a lucky man, don?t ruin your chance to happiness I have known guys whose women are ice and they wanna kill themselves
Also I have heard horror stories about women getting married to inadequate men, maybe she has too and needs to know if you are up to it
Yeah i’ve had sex in the past, that’s how I know a difference between an experienced and inexperienced girl…
I’ve directly asked her ands he has denied it saying that I’m the only one. She has like 0 hesitation with me… and it freaks me out. And the scary part is she just came from Pakistan. It’s not like she grew up in the west. I thought girls were a lot more hesitant in pakistan?
I’m abit confused. So you’ve done the deed before but exactly why are you worried whether or not your fiance has been sexually active before? Is this your typical asian male hypocrisy or is there another reason??? To me it would only seem fair if she has also done something in the past considering the fact that you ain’t a virgin either :halo: Moreover, is she aware of your colourful past too?
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Exactly. The more and more he’s providing information the more and more I’m getting confused about his actual question. I’m guessing he wanted someone pure from back home and is disappointed the one his family are linking him with may not be as innocent as he may have hoped.
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Ahan. If men in the West have “needs” they need to fulfill before marriage then women in the East might have needs too. 
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Bandar…you sound like someone’s multi to me. 
Decent Guy, True Pakistani man.
hmmm, are you sure you didn’t encourage her? Because a GIRL would never…
I mean you sound like a total hypocrite so…
I didnt get your concern. Girl should not express her desires or you dont want her to like sex? Are you asexual? You should let her know. Life gets miserable without sex. I am a girl too. Judge me.
Taali Aik Hath sa nahi Bajti … She might be aggressive in all of this .. but i am quite sure you had asked for that too ..
There is a wise saying heard quite many times : You get a Partner like you are … i dont think you should be concerned that much . Just believe in your self .